Girls have to live alone for several years.

Just like taking care of yourself before taking care of others, living a good life for one person can lead a good life for two people.
Many people are born and raised in the sea, even when they are in college. Although the school has arranged a dormitory, she has never lived for a day. She would rather take the subway for two hours every day and go home. After graduation, she found a secretarial job in the sea. The salary was not high, but she readily accepted falling in love because she was close to home. After two years of talking, her boyfriend begged her to move in from home for two days. She didn’t give up the fish, but the water family didn’t reply until one night when she was depressed. She took a taxi to her boyfriend’s house at ten o’clock at night and saw another woman in her arms
The next day, she decided to move from home. She felt that it was because she didn’t want to leave home that her boyfriend cheated on her. Taking advantage of this lesson, she must say goodbye to her family, otherwise it will be more difficult to take this step later.
So she has a meager salary and rented 10 square meters for a single person and three people to share the kitchen for the first month. She has been scrambling to go to her roommate for washing. She always wipes her face and then puts on makeup. When she encounters urgency, she has to hold back going to the company and never cook. She can buy some food at a convenience store on the roadside. Although there is no hot soup and hot rice at home, she thinks it is worthwhile to gradually adapt to a person’s life.
Unfortunately, she met her roommates who were like-minded. Except for her, the three girls brought their boyfriends back for the night from time to time or a lot of friends came to the house to drink and sing, or just these three girls played mahjong until midnight, just as they always regarded them as they were there. They also regarded her as never greeting her when she was in the public interest, but many of them were determined to live, paid the rent for half a year, and could not leave without saying goodbye.
But at the beginning of the third month, she moved back home without saying a word. She can fight for the living environment, but she can’t fight for herself and talk about lonely things.
Her parents are employees of ordinary companies, and they don’t have much daily entertainment. Everyone has always been alone with her since childhood. She has never eaten alone, slept alone, and even asked her mother to live alone when she went shopping. She moved from home that night and looked at the wall in her room, and she felt lonely for the first time. At that moment, she suddenly realized her long-term desire, not a comfortable bed at home, delicious rice or a water heater that can be bathed at any time, but always a little fun around her.
In order to fight against a person, after work day, she stayed in bed and watched American dramas until her eyes ached. She fell asleep for more than two months. But every Friday night, she didn’t watch American dramas. She was always planning how to spend two days on weekends. She also wanted to go shopping and call her friends, then she gave up. She was busy and didn’t have time to accompany her. Later, she gave up the idea of being alone in the street.
So watching American TV series in a daze lying in bed chatting and turning pages has become her most daily life. When she thinks of going back to that one-person room after work and fighting with three women, she wants to stay in the office for a long time, but when she is alone, she can’t wait to pick up things and leave.
Loneliness is such a thing that you don’t realize it, but once you realize it, you will follow it. Later, many people will feel that passers-by are watching her on the road, and it seems that they are saying, Look at a person. How pitiful it is. Before, she felt that their life was so rough that people couldn’t stand it. But one day when she came home, she saw three people gathered together to eat steaming hot pot of vegetables, and she was envious. She didn’t go home once for two months because she was afraid that once she went back, she would never have the courage to come again.
As the day passed, it became more and more like a battle. She tried every means to make herself forget the fact that she lived alone, but she always remembered it before she forgot it. Instead, she emphasized her loneliness over and over again, which affected several female colleagues in her office to go to lunch without asking her for this meal. She wouldn’t have eaten it before, but she would have been with them, but now she won’t.
It seems that people all over the world are discriminating against lonely people.
Everything became boring. She almost forgot the taste of happiness, so after crying a lot, she decided to move back home, just like moving in. She moved back the next day. She couldn’t think of living alone, but she just ended up living at her parents’ house before marriage, and her husband and children would never be alone when she got married. Why did she have to push herself into a dead end?
When I got home, Duoduo lived a paradise life again. After getting up early, my mother prepared a hot breakfast. After dinner, my parents would go for a walk and talk about each other’s interesting things at work. I stayed at home on weekends and watched Korean dramas with my mother. This man is handsome, that man is bad, or it is no different to go shopping together hand in hand. This makes Duoduo more convinced that moving home is the right choice.
More than a year later, her parents arranged a blind date for her. Because her parents had made full preparations and carefully selected her, she felt that it was very suitable for her to meet one another. A mature and steady man was a sales supervisor in a company. All this met many people’s wishes to have a stable home. Both of them were relatively older and both parents were satisfied with each other. After half a year, they got married, and they were so excited that it seemed like a general relief that she was finally going to belong to her own home.
First-time wife, she feels very fresh about everything at home, and seems to be unable to finish her work. After work every day, she will rush home to clean the house and wash clothes, and then go into the kitchen to prepare dinner carefully. If she does these things, it would be great if she can get her husband’s praise. Compared with working, she stays at home day by day, and her husband is very satisfied with her because she is busy at work. When she gets home, she will be clean and clean, and the fatigue of waiting for him with hot meals will be relieved a lot.
But this happy day didn’t last long. After half a year, men were arranged to plan a new department as a whole. When they worked overtime, they gradually increased. When they worked overtime until midnight, it was convenient not to go home. When they slept in the office for a while, they continued to work. Husband didn’t go home to eat or sleep, and suddenly they became less passionate. It seemed that she was doing everything for her husband to see, but once he was away, she felt that she had done it and no one appreciated it, it would definitely be meaningless.
So she returned to her single life. Although she lived in the kitchen at home, she still bought fast food and took it home to eat. When her husband was not at home, she didn’t want to cook, and she didn’t have the energy to clean the house after work. She just sat on the sofa and watched a pile of clothes left in the washing machine, but she didn’t want to press the button to let it roll. She said that at this time, she would remember when she moved two months ago, and now it was no different to talk about loneliness.
The most unbearable thing for her is that her husband doesn’t come home occasionally at night. Although she doesn’t want to, she still wants to be considerate of him. It’s not that he doesn’t want to come back. It’s just that he is forced to work. But slowly, she has formed the habit that she can’t sleep one night if she doesn’t come home, but she just can’t sleep. When she calls her husband, he comforts her for an hour or two, and she still can’t sleep again. She goes back and forth night after night until one day, her husband says angrily. Don’t call me so many times every night. Are you tired of sleeping? It’s not efficient to work overtime late. You still interrupt me one by one. She also feels wronged and cries, but I can’t sleep without you at home. It’s so many days after my husband lost a sentence. People of this age are afraid of sleeping alone, so what else can they do and leave?
Duoduo is lucky that this day didn’t last long. Her husband worked overtime day and night for three months and finished the leadership. Finally, she can go home often. Duoduo is very happy, as if she had endured a winter and spring, and her work at home seems to have broken ground. Busy life has also enriched her. Many husbands are her, and the sun can light her up in an instant.
After one or two years of marriage, the days became dull, and there was no passion between the two people at first. The first change was that her husband would try to go home for dinner no matter how busy he was at work. Now, he has nothing to do, so he just eats with friends outside for three days a week. He is not happy to say that eating outside is delicious and even the materials are unhealthy. The husband comforted her by saying that it is good to eat at home every day, but how can I be a salesman and not a friend? How can it seem that I am eating? In fact, many businesses are negotiated at the dinner table.
Duoduo is a person, but in her daily life, she gradually loses her initial patience. Talking alone at home makes her feel more painful than anything else. She becomes a little unwise when she thinks that she will live alone in the next few years. She will call her husband when he is eating out and say that she is not feeling well. He has to hurry home to see Shudi looking after her. She explains that she has just taken medicine and is much better, or she will go directly to her husband’s office after work to wait for him and her to go home together, so that colleagues can see his wife. I’m embarrassed to call him to dinner when I’m waiting, or one day she called her friends who often eat with her husband and warned them to try not to eat with her husband.
It wasn’t long before my husband and friends knew that he didn’t want him to go to social parties, so his family and friends tried not to call him after dinner. At first, my husband felt strange that the wine field suddenly lost a lot. One day, he realized from his friends’ jokes that he had done so many things in secret.
Men attach great importance to their friends. After doing this, it is conceivable that my husband will divorce if he interferes with my life again, and he will become more and more rebellious. The more he fucks behind his back, the more he will socialize outside.
Life is getting dark again. I really want to divorce. It’s not easy for two people to be so hostile. But after divorce, can she handle living alone? When it comes to living alone, many things will be defeated. This time, too, she is determined not to divorce, even if her husband is late for dinner, but she still goes home. On weekends, there are quite a few people to talk to at home, but it’s good.
Three or four years later, because the husband drinks, the two of them still have no children, and they want to have a child for a long time. On the one hand, the husband’s nervousness may be relieved after having a child, on the other hand, the child will be busy and full in her life.
However, when our friend talked about Duoduo coming, she said that it was still not good to have children, because she was not a child there, but something that could enrich her. Cleaning the house, burning the fire and cooking were the same. When she got rid of chatting, she tried to tie her husband to the child, but she never thought that it would be much easier to tie herself to accompany her than her husband and children.
There are more than one person around me, but the team is huge. They can live in a crowd. Once a person is alone, they will never die. It is also a common problem of modern people. They are afraid of being alone, afraid of being alone, afraid of being alone, and afraid of being alone. Many smart girls quickly find someone to marry after coming from home to realize the perfect transition from one home to another, but they don’t know that you don’t force yourself to live a life, but life will force you. Your marriage will make you feel that you are no longer lonely, but I don’t know that trying to get married to avoid me will eventually destroy yourself.
I think a girl must live alone for a few years, not a month and a half, but one year less. Just like training, letting a girl live alone is not to exercise her ability to cook at home, but to get along with herself. In a woman’s life, it is more important than getting along with herself. It is the lifeblood of a woman.